When I coached baseball many years ago, a young ballplayer came to me asking for advice. I offered my opinion: he needed to get his act together. Then, like many young men might do, he griped about me to one of the other coaches.
Our paths crossed again when he was 28 years old, at which point he said, “Now that I have a family of my own, I’ve thought back on your ‘lectures’ and realized you were just answering my questions honestly. Thank you.”
Not surprisingly, my lectures as a coach weren’t so different from those I’d received from a WWII colonel turned coach and teacher at my high school. The only difference: I never asked for his opinion—it was offered as he held my shirt collar. Still, when I came home on leave from the Marine Corps a few years later, I showed up at my old high school, walked onto the practice field, and thanked him. He was a solid mentor when I needed one but was too young to know it.
Years later, as a retirement mentor, I’ve spent countless hours analyzing the habits shared by successful retirees. Six stand out, and I urge all of our readers to take these steps sooner rather than later. I’m not going to grab you by the shirt collar like my coach did, but I’m confident you’ll find this “lecture” worth reading.